Thursday, 4 August 2011

The E&A Combination



When the body is filled with ego and selfishness, the cycle of birth and death does not end.

A dash of ego with a handful of arrogance just turns up to be an undeniably horrible combination. Exposition of such character can cause a great downfall. 

It's pretty normal to have ego issues. I mean all of us have a certain amount of ego. Throughout our lives, it evolved, it either reduced or surged. I think, ego can be a plus point at times. When you have a moderate amount of ego, you will stand for your words and rights. You'll be a great fighter.

Arrogance, the word itself sounds strident enough. But just little of it would do some good. People would not dare to sit on your head or behave insolently to you if you have a LITTLE arrogance. They know that you're not the type that can be messed with. In other words, you'll be feared.

Yet again, like they say ''Too much of anything is bad for you''. From our food up to attitude, it all works in that range.

Back to the deadly E&A combination. Oh yes, that can drive you crazy! Have you all came across anyone that is just deluged with the E & A, that every other values and characteristic of theirs are concealed? 

They can never agree when they are wrong because of the influence of self denial in them. They have this great sense of predominant in them that strives them to defend themselves, without realising that they could be at fault.

Even Albert Einstein made some mistakes in his proving. One out of the 23 biggest mistake he has committed was in 1905, the first proof of E = mc2. ( this formula would be pretty familiar to Science students, specifically Physics). 

So if a genius could commit a mistake, why not us? 

For them to deny, they'll come up with ridiculous lies to cover up the whole thing. Lies over lies. *Yes, i'm allergic to bullshits*. Not only that, they'll try putting the blame on every other person who came to their mind. But they'll never give up no matter what. 

Most people with E & A have problems with anger management. They become obsessive towards superiority that everyone around them are at the wrong side, no matter what. They'll become flummoxed that they'll fork out the smallest mistake they can spot. So much so, they become manipulative and begin to twist situation for a win. When the person opposing them are equally belligerent, they feel threatened and that's when the anger begins to seep in. 

Ego, arrogance, lies, obsession, manipulation and anger. It ignites from a little flame to a huge fire. People with the E & A 'disease' are at the loss to be said. Relationships end up cracking because they don't have the tolerance. Their bossiness would cause a great risk to their working life. Their loftiness will also soon or later effect the family.

Believe it or not, the words ''sorry'' and ''thank you'' are foreign to them. They think that they're gaining respect and status from people, but actually they are loosing both of it! 

As much as one can be blinded by love, they also can be blinded by ego and arrogance.


It can be harmful if we have too much of it, A little of of it and success would be right 
behind us. It's our choice. We can make a difference.


  

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